Outside despite the bitching, whining, incessant nagging, mediocre sex, avoidance, stale conversations, selfish behavior, fantasizing about others, endless arguments, lack of appreciation, feeling trapped, passive aggression, poor communication, inability to compromise, biting sarcasm, doubt and distrust, feelings of inadequacy and emptiness, lack of affection, irritability, failure to support each other's growth, incompatibility, unmet emotional needs, predictability, blatant disrespect, conflicting core values, intense resentment and genuine contempt, i love you.